THE SCENARIO:
If you're any normal guy frankly, you've probably messaged or talked to a girl who is super hot. And to make matters more complicated, she probably responded positively towards you. What happens next is something all of us have been guilty of: we think to ourselves, "Oh man, I don't want to blow it with this girl!" And then what happens? Sure enough, we blow it! But why?
THE PROBLEM:
Why do we act different around girls we perceive as more attractive than what we're used to getting? The answer is simple. We start having thoughts like, "This girl is too hot for me, I better throw in a little something extra to successfully attract her." And that's exactly what we do. No dice soldier!
THE SOLUTION:
DON'T do anything different than you normally would. Guys make this mistake time and time again. They get a positive reply(online) or a reaction(in person) from an especially hot girl and they think (because she's so hot) they have to try something new and better. In essence...they panic. Picture every girl the same...as someone you wouldn't date unless she had a kick ass personality. Her looks don't impress you. In fact, they somewhat turn you off because you know there's a greater chance she has a shallow personality BECAUSE of her looks. Why is this? Because she's been able to cruise through life by using her looks to get friends, boyfriends, material items, jobs, etc. Whereas the rest of society has to use its personality, charm, wit, work ethic, sense of humor, etc. We call these particular women External Validation Junkies! And you know what I'm talking about when I say external validation junkies. These are the women who feed off of getting attention from their external surroundings, and most of the attention comes from men.
So if you find yourself in the presence of a particularly attractive woman, remember, don't act different! in fact, treat her as if she's just "one of the guys".
And if you're a Matchbook Method member...when you're in the middle of an online conversation with an exceptionally hot girl, resist the urge to modify or add to the pre-scripted messages. There's a reason they work so well. Trust in the method and yourself and she'll be eating out of your hand.
As infamous pickup artist Mehow says, "Keep the pimp hand strong."
